Conversations with Chat GPT: Sexuality and Spirituality

Kenneth Leong
13 min readSep 16

Ken: What do you think makes sex exciting?

Chat: Sexual excitement is a complex and subjective experience that can vary greatly from person to person. There are several factors that can contribute to making sex exciting, including:

1. Physical pleasure: The physical sensations and pleasure derived from sexual activity can be highly stimulating and exciting. This can include sensations such as touch, arousal, and orgasm.

2. Emotional connection: Sex can be more exciting when there is a strong emotional bond or connection with a partner. Feelings of love, intimacy, and trust can enhance the overall experience.

3. Novelty and variety: Trying new things, exploring different sexual activities, and introducing novelty into the sexual routine can increase excitement. This can involve experimenting with different positions, locations, role play, or incorporating sex toys, among other things.

4. Anticipation and desire: The build-up of anticipation and desire can add excitement to sexual experiences. This can involve flirting, seduction, sending suggestive messages, or engaging in foreplay to ignite desire and create a sense of anticipation.

5. Psychological factors: The mind plays a significant role in sexual excitement. Factors such as fantasy, imagination, arousal triggers, and engaging in sexual communication can contribute to the excitement experienced during sex.

It’s important to note that what makes sex exciting can vary greatly from person to person. It is influenced by individual preferences, desires, and experiences. Open and honest communication with your partner is key to understanding each other’s needs and desires, which can enhance sexual excitement for both individuals involved.

Ken: So many people think of sex as a physical thing. But it seems to me that contact is often not necessary. Just think about phone sex in the 80s. That was before we have iPhones through which we can have video calls.

Chat: Absolutely! The psychology of sexual excitement can play a significant role in various forms of sexual activity, including those that don’t involve physical contact, such as phone sex. Here are a few psychological factors…

Kenneth Leong

Author, Zen teacher, scientific mystic, professor, photographer, philosopher, social commentator, socially engaged human