Is quality sex about quantity?

Kenneth Leong
3 min readSep 3, 2019

A Chinese friend of mine is newly wed. He told me today that one of his plans is to have quality sex.

But what is quality sex? I am sure that everyone has a different idea. Today in the U.S., a common notion of quality sex is to have an incredible orgasm experience. An earthshaking, quivering orgasm. Or a series of explosive orgasms, one after another. Based on my own observation on Facebook, Tantra seems to be a new fad in the sexual landscape. For many Tantra devotees, the new excitement is to have a “full body orgasm.” There also seems to be some confusion of quality and…

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Kenneth Leong

Author, Zen teacher, scientific mystic, professor, photographer, philosopher, social commentator, socially engaged human