Why the Golden Rule is pragmatic and not idealistic?

Several days ago, I posted a quote from secularist Phil Zukerman, who said, “For secular people, morality is predicated on one simple principle: empathetic reciprocity, widely known as the Golden Rule. Treating other people as you would like to be treated. It is an ancient, universal ethical imperative. And it requires no supernatural beliefs.”

Almost immediately after I posted it, a Buddhist friend replied, “It is a good Golden Rule but now stands as a belief too. Why? Because ancient and present-day people do not apply this belief either. To wait for empathetic reciprocity is pathetic.”

So, here is the question: Is the Golden Rule an ideological belief system? Does it assume some basic human goodness?

The Golden Rule, often expressed as “treat others as you would like to be treated,” is a principle that resonates across cultures and religions. However, it is crucial to understand that this rule is not based on an idealistic belief in innate human goodness. Instead, it is rooted in mutuality and reciprocity, reflecting a pragmatic approach to navigating our diverse society.

At its core, the Golden Rule acknowledges the shared interests and experiences of individuals. It emphasizes that everyone has feelings, needs, and desires similar to our own. By recognizing this mutuality…